Honoring Mom on Your Wedding Day
15 Beautiful Ways to Honor Your Mom on Your Wedding Day
Weddings are full of cherished traditions, many of which highlight the role of a father: walking the bride down the aisle and sharing a father-daughter dance. But what about Mom?
Highlighting your mom on your wedding day is a way to acknowledge her sacrifices, celebrate her presence, and express gratitude for everything she has done. Let's review 15 different ideas to celebrate her love and presence on the big day:
1. Have Her Walk You Down the Aisle
Although traditionally this role is solely given to the father, it is not off limits to include your Mom! Whether she walks alone before you head down, she walks alongside your father or on your other arm, or if she simply stands at the end of the aisle waiting to give you a hug before you take your place - this is a touching way to give her a well-deserved moment during the ceremony.
2. A Special Mother-Daughter (or Mother-Child) Dance
Father-daughter dances are common, but a mother-daughter (or mother-child) dance can be just as emotional. Choose a song that has meaning for both of you! Choreograph a routine together or surprise her on the day of with a dance.
Pro Tip - if you're concerned about having too many special dances, shake it up! Start with just the two of you for a brief moment, then have your DJ welcome all other women in attendance on the dance floor. Ask the DJ to blend you and your Mom's sweet song with "Girls Just Wanna Have Fun" or "Run The World (Girls)" so you can kick off the dance floor.
3. Include Her in Your Getting Ready Time
Ask your mom to be part of your morning prep. Let her zip up your dress, fix your veil, or share a quiet minute together before the whirlwind of the day begins. This is a perfect time to make a special moment... For example:
Ask her for a piece of fabric from her own wedding dress to wrap about your bouquet together.
Write her a letter and have her read it with you.
Ask her to share marriage advice with you as you're getting your hair done.
Create a photo moment you know you would love to look back on.
4. Wear a Piece of Her Wedding Attire
Incorporate a meaningful part of her own wedding day - such as lace from her gown sewn into yours, or wearing her veil or necklace. This sentimental touch connects your special days. (Make sure to tell your photographer why these things are important so they don't get missed in the photo album!)
There are lots of ways to partake in the Something Borrowed tradition!
5. Let Her Give a Speech
Invite her to give a speech at the reception or even during the ceremony (she could sing a song, share a poem, or share her well wishes).
If she is nervous about speaking in front of so many people, ask her if she'd be willing to provide a speech on the rehearsal day instead.
6. Dedicate a Section of Your Vows to Her
If she has played a monumental role in your life, consider including a heartfelt mention in your vows. You can express gratitude for her guidance, love, and support.
7. Do a First Look with Mom
First looks aren't just for partners! Plan a private reveal with your mom and capture the emotional reaction when she sees you in your wedding dress. (Utilize your Wedding Planner and Photographer to help execute this perfectly!)
8. Have Her Officiate the Ceremony
If your mom is comfortable speaking in front of a crowd, consider asking her to officiate your wedding! It’s a beautiful way to include her in one of the most meaningful moments of your life.
If she doesn't want to officiate, she could be a part of the ceremony in another way! Ask her to do a reading, light a unity candle with you, or perform another symbolic gesture. This gives her a visible and meaningful role in your union.
9. Plan a Special Tribute During the Reception
Dedicate a special moment to your mom during the reception, such as a heartfelt toast or a special song played in her honor. Or - instead of a traditional bouquet toss, present your bouquet (or a smaller version) to your mom as a thank-you gesture.
10. Use Her Favorite Flower in Your Bouquet
Incorporate her favorite blooms into your bouquet, your centerpieces, or the overall floral design as a subtle yet meaningful tribute.
11. Create a Generations of Love Table
Incorporate her wedding photos (and maybe your grandparents, aunts, etc) on a side table! Your guests will love looking through all the wedding photos of your family's past.
Your wedding day is about celebrating love, not just between you and your partner but also the people who have shaped you! Honoring your mother in one (or several) of these ways will make your wedding even more special, filled with love, gratitude, and cherished memories.
I can't wait to hear about what you decide to do for your Mom.
Additionally, if you're looking for a few gifts for your Mom, here are some of our favorites:
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Wine Holder: https://a.co/d/5O7T0vi
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Mother of the Bride Necklace: https://a.co/d/d4XKe1c
Mother in Law Necklace: https://a.co/d/8ZRp7el
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